Female Orgasm, What Does it Feel Like?

By: David Christian Solomon

Describing the experience of a female orgasm is a little bit like describing the taste of salt to someone who has never tasted salt---only harder. Especially when describing a woman's experience of orgasm. Each orgasm is different. Here is an attempt to describe the experience of the Female Orgasm.

Many factors come into play (no pun intended) during a woman's sexual climax. Some of these factors are: the level of her physical arousability, the level of her mental/emotional and physical excitement, the amount and quality of mental/emotional stimulation and the amount and quality of the physical stimulation she receives, her level of confidence/comfort with emotional/physical surrender during the sexual activity.

Here is an interesting observation learned from women who regularly achieve orgasm: in women who are sexually aroused (meaning they have the physical and mental urgency to be sexually stimulated aka they feel 'horny') orgasm is achieved in 3 to 5 minutes when a woman uses self stimulation in private. Orgasm takes on average 21 minutes when she is stimulated in the presence of a partner. The method of stimulation used varies but in nearly all cases is applied to the clitoris by the woman, by her partner or a combination of both. This includes the use of fingers, tongue and toys (vibrators).

The actual experience of a woman's orgasm can not be adequately described in just physical terms of release of muscle tension, muscle spasms in the genital and anal regions, increased heart and breathing rate, and in some cases female ejaculation. The intense feelings of pleasure and emotion are key components of the orgasmic experience-if not the defining element of a sexual climax.

Here are few descriptions by women of their experience of orgasm:

"it feels like I am falling",

"it is like that feeling when you ride a roller coaster all the way to the top and when you go over the top, that intense feeling you get in your stomach is what you feel, only it starts in your vagina and goes all the way down to your toes and back up to your head",

"bursting open with pleasure",

"Warm waves of energy",

"It feels like a combination of having to pee followed by an intense need to scream out loud because of the pleasure and then a lot of little explosions",

"Orgasm is like someone is tickling me lightly with a feather... Softly and slowly at first... then going faster and faster...until its just right... then my whole body is tingling...then its like something just pops...like a warm water balloon bursts inside me and its all warm inside and I feel the warmth running down in trickles...like a small warm waterfall...and I feel like I just climbed up that warm waterfall...and I'm left breathless...tingly and warm...like I just got out of a hot sauna.... hot... sticky, wet and breathless.",

"For me, it feels like I'm being tickled around my waist and inner thighs, all over that area, then it builds up and I can feel it, it's like everything rushes to that area, then explodes, sending feel good sensations down my legs to my toes, up my stomach and breasts, through my arms. It even feels good when it's over...because I feel like I just finished a workout but want more, so much more, and it's like I can feel those sensations fade which is amazing.",

"It depends on the orgasm of course, sometimes I have the itty bitty little one that feels all right. Then I have the ones where my insides are on fire and it starts up my legs then goes into my groin, then it's all just a big explosion of holy **** and I close my eyes tight and see many colors and then I start tingling behind my knees and twitching. Then I remember to breathe and open my eyes. I look into my partner's eyes and say "wow".

As these shared experiences demonstrate, each orgasm is different. Some may come as small of ripples pleasure while others can come as a massive wave of overwhelming pleasure. There is no such thing as a "normal orgasm" as each orgasmic experience is unique.

So what does an orgasm feel like? It's varies, as no two are alike. Some will go deep into a woman's soul filling her with increadible pleasure and powerful bonding emotions to the one she loves. While others will just be a pleasurable release of sexual tension. But each is hers to enjoy; alone or with someone special.

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How To Please Your Woman In Bed

By: michael

Written by Oprah Expert: Michael Webb

Did you know that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms?

It's true! Unfortunately, many women can go years without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman. Here are some tips to increase the chances she'll reach climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:

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1.  Don't start in the bedroom - Want to increase the chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman's brain. Do this and you canbet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)
2. Relax her - It's  hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.
3. Ignore the vagina - Do you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you'll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very powerful.
4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you'll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you've finished first and decide to help her come, you won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed to keep her hot and turned on.
5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best way I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you're about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the "little guys" subside again. Now continue pleasuring. :D
6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned on. By using a product substitute, you're only fooling yourself. Without products, you'll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.
7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.
8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a "come here" motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot…
9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.
10. Give her oral sex ­ The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I didn't believe it, countless studies have been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC's with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around  there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using right away to give women the most earth-shattering experience of their lives.

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French Kissing Tips

This is a guide to basic kissing, i.e. you learn the basics and get the basics right, then experiment and try different styles and more advanced techniques.

The basics

1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck.
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.
13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing.

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How to Have a Successful Blog and Zine

By: Katherine Watson

One of the keys to achieving a very successful blog and zine—whether written the classic way (a type writer) or by modern means (a desktop computer), is your eagerness to shovel in the effort to maintain it. In fact, even a zine that does not have much potential will garner a lot of supporters and readers if it presses on. However, letting the crowning achievement of your blog be based on how often you write and maintain it will only gather support in the long run and perhaps might not even be able to get off the ground, because you may become disillusioned and quit before things get better. This is why you should concentrate on managing your efforts, making sure that you are not only capable of maintaining your blog, but also have a zine worth continuing. This article will act as a guide by setting steps that you need to follow to guarantee a successful blog and zine. In this modern age, you also do not need to make it harder for you by working on classic means to creating a blog and zine, so you should have a computer to work on before following this guide. You should also have an:

1. Internet connection;
2. any kind of word processing software, and;
3. a high-quality printer.

• The first thing you should work on before anything else would be on a consistent kind of style for your zine. This is important, as you can confuse yourself if you keep changing themes every time you get something published. And worse than that, you are likely to alienate the readers of your earlier work, and your supporters would never grow in number.

• Once you have the proper themes you want to work on, the next step is the layout. This is just as important as the theme, as this is what you will use to pull your readers in, in the first place. If you do not have prior knowledge of layouts and graphic editing, then you are likely to have a hard time, but there are plenty of tutorials in the Internet that will help you hone that ability.

• It is also important that you stay true to your word—if you tell your readers that your next issue will be released in a specific date, and then it must be released on that specific date. You cannot compromise on this, as your reputation will be on the line, and even something as simple as being late for your submission can echo to your future publications. You can also give them something to show your appreciation for their sticking with your publications, little gifts included in your zine, like decals or even bookmarks and the like.

• Finally, remember not to bite off more than you can chew. You should always be pacing yourself, even if you have been writing a blog and zine for a long time now. Overworking yourself is a very bad thing when you are working in this kind of environment, as it relies on your eagerness to maintain your publications.

That is pretty much all there is to know, and so long as you keep all of that in mind (and keep pushing!), then you will definitely have a successful blog and zine.

What Is Social Media Marketing?

By: Socialfactory

If you fall into any one of the following categories, like:

• the ones who don't know much or anything about social media,
• the ones who are interested but don't know how to use it and
• those who don't believe in the value that a social media strategy can bring to any site or business

you must read this article to know how big a deal is social media and the enormous benefits of social media marketing.

Various social media websites

Social media is information content created by people using highly accessible and scalable publishing technologies that is intended to facilitate communications, influence and interaction with peers and with public audiences. This is typically done via the Internet and mobile communications networks. Today this practice is being enjoyed by executives and professionals for brand exposure and marketing.
Do you make these mistakes to market your brand or services?

• Use Yellow page ads that cost thousands of dollars, yet bring in little new business?
• Spend money on direct mailers that also have limited results.
• How about money spent on print advertising. How effective is it?
• Are you spending lots of money optimizing your website but still have little traffic.
• Spend money on Pay Per Click Advertising Campaigns, with limited results.

Can you improve your business if you know:

• What is being said about you.
• What your customers think about your product or service.
• What your customers really want.
• What your competitors are doing.
• How to stay up to date with the latest trends and developments.
• How to make your business more profitable.

Nothing provides a better return on investment than having a network of people raving about you and it doesn't matter what product or service you sell. So let's have a look onto the benefits of social media viral marketing.
The value of Marketing through Social Media Channels
Social media marketing is the process of promoting your site or business through social media channels and it is a powerful strategy that will get you links, attention and massive amounts of traffic.Social media marketing is an engagement with online communities to generate exposure, opportunity and sales. The number-one advantage is generating exposure for the business, followed by increasing traffic and building new business partnerships. It is a powerful strategy that will get you links, attention and massive amounts of traffic.
What are the benefits?
It's natural. No doubt you get natural links, your website is exposed to a large number of people. This differs from paid advertising which has overt commercial overtones.
It's defensible. Social communities can be a great source of web traffic on top of any traffic you are already receiving from search engines. While you can't easily increase your search engine traffic, social media traffic can be very easily controlled through strategic marketing.
It's low-cost/high returns. Costs are limited to only time and perhaps the expenses involved in hiring a freelance programmer/designer. The benefits will often exceed the cost. It would take you thousands of dollars to buy many links; social media has the ability to give you that for free.
It complements other efforts. Social media optimization and marketing is usually community-specific. It doesn't interfere with any other methods of getting traffic to your website. It can and will fit perfectly with an advertising campaign targeting other websites or search engines.
There is no other low-cost promotional method out there that will easily give you large numbers of visitors, some of whom may come back to your website again and again. If you are selling products/services or just publishing content for ad revenue, social media marketing is a potent method that will make your site profitable over time.

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Funny Pick-up Lines as Conversation Starters with Girls

By: Scott Patterson

Initiating a conversation with an attractive woman is not always an easy task. In fast, it can be quite intimidating to a lot of guys. No, this article is not going to provide you with some humorous pick-up lines to use with women. Actually, listen to me closely when I say this- do NOT use funny pick-up lines!

Does the following situation sound familiar? You see an attractive woman standing with her friends. You want to meet her, but you have no idea what to say. So, you take the advice of your friends and use one of their funny pick-up lines. However, rather than engaging further in conversation, she turns the other way in disgust.

If you still haven't figured out what happened above, I will tell you. It was an poorly chosen conversation starter. Funny pick-up lines are not effective conversation starters with girls. You may find them funny, but they do not work with women. Instead, you should try a more natural way to initiate conversation when trying to meet women.

The goal is to avoid sounding tacky or cheesy. Below, I describe four ways you can initiate a conversation in a manner that comes across more naturally and not so "obvious."

First, a great way to start a conversation is to focus on a situation or event. Situational conversation starters are terrific ways to use the environment at the time to engage in conversation with a woman.

For example, if you notice a couple arguing and she spills a drink on him, you can go up to a woman nearby and joke about how great a couple they are together. Say something like, "wow, what a close relationship they have."

Secondly, a cliche pick-up line is far different from a genuine compliment. Complimentary pick-up lines are effective because woman love flattery and will be less likely to "walk away in disgust" after you just complimented her.

Keep in mind, though, that you should compliment a woman on something other than her looks. If she is attractive, she has probably heard similar compliments many times. Rather, try complimenting her on her fashion style or her dancing skills. The point is to make the compliment appear genuine and natural.

Third, just be yourself and act normally. Approaching a woman with confidence in your own personality and abilities will set you apart from the crowd. Your straightforward, natural approach may impress her far more than you anticipate, especially if guys continue to stick by the corny pick-up lines.

Finally, there is always the cocky-funny approach. It is, actually, a great way to meet women and build the attraction further. This method was created by David DeAngelo and involves approaching a woman with a slightly arrogant attitude while also trying to make her laugh.

The reasoning behind this approach is to build yourself up so that she wants to work for your attention, and you can do this by using opportunities in the conversation to tease her. It is effective because your intentions are not obvious. You give the impression that you are just focused on enjoying the conversation and making her laugh.

Now, funny pick-up lines may actually her laugh, but they really are not the best choice of conversation starters with girls. The next time you are trying to meet a woman, opt for one of the four methods above. You will find that they are much more effective at meeting women.

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How to Make Women Cum - Learn to Make Her Cum

By: Osita Modozie

The way to make a woman cum differs from the style which men use to orgasm. It is known that it is simpler for a guy to cum more than a woman. Nevertheless, a lady can cum explosively to a greater extender more than the way guys do. Thats if only she will be able to cum in the first instance. Most ladies are only able to attain orgasm by the application of what I call self-abuse. Nevertheless, the amount of the lady’s orgasm tends to be best at the time her partner does it. There is need for you to master the right means to keep those orgasms on the move. Below you will find some stuff to try out anytime you wish to kick it with her to make your woman cum.

Direct verses Indirect

The way you use to perform your touches at your woman’s clitoris is very essential for her to cum. Prior to fully turning her on, direct clitoral stimulation can sense irritation to a lady. You need to begin with indirect stimulation. Move your fingers around the two sides of her clitoral shaft. That is you should stroke your partner’s clitoral region first. No matter the means you use to tap around, don’t skip to direct contact till when she gets in the mood for it and set for you. As soon as you notice that her breathing has become grave, and you can sense the throbbing down, then you should switch over to the candy region to make her cum.

Speed vs Rhythm

An implausible essential peculiarity is to get the rhythm of your stimulation to be inline with the speed of your stimulation. Majority of guys feel that they are all equal and nothing matters, but I tell you that it does matter to make your woman to cum. Speed may differ, but rhythm shouldn’t differ. A lot of women like it when their partner begins slowly using gentle fondle, but they regularly increment speed as they get nearer to reaching orgasm. Nevertheless, they will continue to keep the similar rhythm which they began with. Irregardless of the amount of pressure you apply to speed your fondle keep a steady flow to the lovemaking.

Thrust vs grind

Are you aware that ladies receive small stimulation through thrust alone? There exist some little nerve ends at the layer of her vagina. Taking her to multiple orgasms just by thrusting your dick in your partner is a long blast. Irrespective of the tough stance you use to dig her, you won’t dig your partner off. Nevertheless, it does not imply that she will be unable to fully climax at the period you are in her if you carry out the proper thing. Rather than attempt to poke, you should make use of grinding motion. This will enable your pubic bone to get in touch with her clitoris; thereby she will get the input she requires to make her cum. This is why a lot of women prefer the lady-on-top technique as their desired position. This is so because they are able to operate the activity, so they find it easy to receive their clitoral input by moving their hips frontward to enable contact with the top of their clit. A lot of guys love it during the moment their partner rocks them. It gives them good visual stimulation and you will be penetrated very deep.

Lick By Lick is a step by step guide which you can use to learn the tested and proven ways to make a woman cum. If you want to make your woman go wild and make her beg you for more, then you need this guide. The tricks used in this guide can blow your partner away. See more about it at Lick By Lick Review

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